Born a Crime

It feels so good to read! Who would have imagined, Sana with a Book! I have not touched a  book since the semester ended. It feels so good to read again. Read for pleasure. No news. No academics papers. Just pure pleasure reading, for fun! I bought a book before school ended, thinking I'm gonna... Continue Reading →


What does it mean to listen?

Hearing and listening are 2 different things. Hearing doesn't imply choice, it's unintentional. Listening does imply choice, it's intentional. Here's what it means to listen: Listening means "I respect you" Listening means "I care about what you have to say" Listening means "You matter in this moment" Listening means "I love you" Listening means "I'm... Continue Reading →

I’m a married woman! Say whaaa!!!

Getting Married! Who would have thought I would ever get married? I still cannot believe I am married. After so many years of spending time abroad, exploring the world and having the time of my life with friends, I decided to settle down. I thought once before, it would be nice to settle down and... Continue Reading →

The story of my sister’s illness

I was 13 when my sister took sick. I’d like to think that my sister’s illness had changed my persona. I considered myself as a very talkative and social person, then after my sister got ill I was quite the opposite - very quiet, sombre, angry and living in a fantasy world in my head.... Continue Reading →

Guest Blogger Poem

"It was just a click away Such a dilemma it was Emotion and fear all around Heart and head in a deep conversation Then courage wins over fear!"

How to get anything you want

  If you are interested in how to get anything you want, watch the video below. Even though I don't believe in the 'universe' as this young lady in the video below, (I believe in Jesus Christ), the message is still the same. I do believe that all spirituality - structured or not - has... Continue Reading →

Be Confident!

Every steps you take; every move you make! Be confident. I always had a confidence issue. I find myself of less value, or I am not sure if I will make it, meaning successful because the norms say I should study practical majors but instead decided to study East Asian Studies for example. It may... Continue Reading →

What does relationship mean to you?

Relationships are important, in fact, it is so important that we as humans value it deeply sometimes even without realizing how much we love another and how close we can grow to them. Like many cultures, the Hmong culture strengths lies in its clans and network. Without a country, the Hmong had survived over and... Continue Reading →

Making Decisions

Often there are many decisions we have to make in life. One that might affect us directly, or one that might affect those around us, especially those that we love. I find this very difficult. Every decision I make has to be well thought out, or it simply needs to have a reasonable logic behind... Continue Reading →

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